Baby who dislikes hugs ... don't worry! It is one step in the growth process

If the baby suddenly hates hugging, Mama Dad will be confused.
But that is one step of growth that many babies show. "That time has come," calm down.

Does your baby hate hug?

Speaking of a baby, I love Mama Daddy's hugs! That's the image.
It may seem surprising that such a baby hates hugging.
But it's not unusual. If you do a gesture that refuses to hug your baby, don't be shocked.

It is common to show that you hate hugs around 3-4 months after birth. It is about time that the neck is sitting and the strength is so strong that it can be supported by itself so that the head does not wobble.
Sometimes using the whole body to refuse to hug is part of growth.

How do you know what you hate?

If you don't have any reasons, such as hungry or diapers, you may hate hugging when you are hugging.

The most common case is to hate hugs.
Until the neck is sitting, the main hugging of the baby is laid down horizontally. The vertical hugging of the body must support an unstable head and requires more attention.
However, at a certain time, the baby himself hate hugging and cry.

In addition, you may have a tight leg, turn your back, or twist your body to resist.
There are several causes of this "warping" movement, one of which is the appeal that "hug is unpleasant".
The baby's small body may warp with a strong force that you can not imagine, and you may be nervous. Be especially careful when hugging at a high position.

Why do you hate hugging?

One of the reasons is that I don't like how to hug.
In addition to hugging horizontally, if the way of hugging is unstable, an extra burden on the body, or if you are afraid of being hugged and nervous, you may cry.

Babies have a higher body temperature than adults, so they feel hot when they are hugged and dislike discomfort.

In addition, being in the room for one day may have less irritation and may be tired.
With the solid skeleton, the muscular strength gives you a feeling of wanting to move, and you may hate being hugged.

There are various reasons why you hate hugging. Observe the situation, explore the cause, and deal with it.

What should I do when I hate it?

The first thing I want to try is to change how to hold.

If you start crying in a sideways state, if you don't seem to have any unpleasant causes, such as beautiful diapers, beautiful diapers, and hot cold, you don't like how to hug them. In that case, just stop crying just by holding it vertically.

If you hold each other's body so that it adheres, your posture may be stable and calm. Be careful not to extend your baby's arms and legs, keep your arms and your legs in M ​​-shaped.

Even if you hate hugging with your bare hands, there are many babies who are quietly embraced if you use a hug. You will be relieved because you can hug you in a stable posture in a moderately adhereled state with Mama Daddy.
Even if you don't have a face -to -face hug, you may be pleased if you hug you positively.

If you walk while hugging, you may be relaxed with rhythmical vibration. If you walk outside and change the view you can see, you may be distracted and stop crying.
It is recommended that Mama daddy first solves and tensions with a relaxing feeling, as it can calm down just to gently ton the back.

Don't worry if you hate hugging?

The reason that a baby hate hugging is due to physiological discomfort, as well as the development of muscles and brains, and wants to see what he wants to move and be interested in, and has begun to be willing. It may be a sign. In most cases, it is one step in the growth process, so you don't need to worry.

If you really hate it, you can choose not to hug.
You can keep breastfeeding asleep, and even if you touch while lying together, you can communicate well. You should use a stroller when you go out.
Don't worry too much, please explore "our child style" together.

However, if you not only refuse to hug, you may not stop crying or repeat the warpage frequently, there is a possibility of some kind of health trouble.
Observe the changes in complexion, fever, vomiting, or swelling of the joints, and see the frequency and strength of the warpage, and consult your doctor if you are worried.